Wednesday, July 12th 2006
We used to be regulars. I’ve even referred to us as friends.
We’ve exchanged pictures. Chatted about our lives.
Now… nothing.
It’s very strange if you ask me.
I’m feeling quite dissed.
Have you been the disser?
Have I dissed you?
Tell me. Tell me.
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I’ve not been blog-disssed yet, THANK GOD!
I really do not handle rejection well at all! And, likewise, I haven’t been the blog-disser. Unless you count one blog I removed from my list because the author only posted about once a month, and I just sort of lost interest.
But I think that’s different than dissing, right?
Sometimes I diss people when I feel dissed.
Then I feel bad about it later, but still feel dissed.
I’ve noticed that some people have kind of checked out of the whole blogging thing… Yeah, I think I’ve been dissed by some, but I don’t take it personally. It’s them, not you, MommaK.
I don’t think I’ve been dissed, but a few people and I have just drifted apart…it was mutual.
That sucks though. Is it possible that they are having “real-life” problems and they are just pulling away from everyone?
I know what you are referring to. It is when someone you read regularly and they the same. Both comment on each others blogs, but suddenly one stops for no apparent reason. You begin to wonder… am I that boring? Do I whine too much? And yes, I have felt the comment diss on many occasions, but those peeps are still on my blogroll.
Yes, to be honest I have felt a little bit of a comment diss. But, I still read every time I noticed an update and comment every so often, like now. I am just that way though. :rant: LOL :giggle:
The only time I have stopped commenting completely or have removed a blog from the roll is when they either: Make me un comfortable by their views or postings or if they have stopped blogging.
Its ok tho M’Kay, I know you are a busy gal. :yes:
Mostly I think they might be trapped under a heavy object. … And perhaps I should call 911.
I dunno if I got dissed. I’m oblivious!
Sometimes I feel like my blogroll his too big and I just can’t get to everyone. And, sometimes I forget that some people have their own sites and they don’t show up as being updated…So, they get left until I wonder what happened to them and then I have to read a bunch and catch up… I’m such a dork!!
I’m too new to be dissed. I’m currently ‘dismal’ ahhh ha ha ha ahh.
Some blogrolls are huge. It’s easy to be dissed by those, especially if you just joined like, way after everyone figured out it was a cool blog. (Tres cool blog, btw).
Maybe you weren’t dissed. Maybe the alleged disser checked out for a bit?
It’s all my fault. I suck. We had a death in the family, I had a toothache. My back went out. There’s a pig in my studio. You know the drill, I have a million excuses. I still love you though.
I am like Ladybug, call me oblivious. Could be the pain killers, though. Hm.
Who dissed my Juliet?!! Let me at ‘em.
Getting dissed through e-mail is the ultimate diss, isn’t it? I hate that.
You never know, though, sometimes it’s not an intential diss, just an oversight or somsething.
Perhaps they’re just fickle. Not about you, but about blogging in general. I go through phases where I’m more into it and I comment, etc., then I fade out for awhile. :wink:
Yup.
Oh shit, it wasn’t me was it? (See, that’s why I need therapy. I think EVERYTHING is my fault). ‘Cause you know I lurve you. *smooch* But, yeah, the blogging friendships can be difficult to decipher sometimes. Someone unlinked me once and my feelings were really hurt, but then later they linked me back, so…I didn’t know what to think.
I believe I have recently been dissed, so it’s really poignant to me to read your post today. I don’t know what I “did” to cause the distance. In the interim, I’ve found myself obsessively checking to see if anyone else in that circle is also ‘dumping’ me…no conclusions yet. :sad:
BUT, I’m so glad to have found your site again (we switched computers for awhile and I lost my bookmarks)– :wave: You have the most fabulous blog design!
May no dissing be done again!
C
:wave: can you be dis-dissed? or de-dissed? Or maybe mis-dissed? I’m sure it wasn’t me cuz you’ve never called me your friend or chatted with me (now wait, are u dissin’ me?) but I’m sorry it happened to you! smooches…
I read your site daily, though I don’t think I’ve commented before. When you’re new you feel like you might be intruding or unwanted so you shy away from commenting…..or is that just me?
I love your site because it’s so real…..you know what I mean. I’ve read so many that come across as phony or written just to lure more readers. I like the homey feel of yours. Too sappy?
Anyway….Hope you didn’t get dissed. I can’t imagine anyone doing that but then again, I haven’t met too many people (None actually) via blogs.
oh my.
i’ve noticed this happening among bloggers. it’s a weird phenomenon, really. that we can now make each other feel all self-conscious without ever really speaking to each other or meeting in person. it’s interesting. but it happens.
i haven’t ever really felt blogdissed, and i hope i haven’t dissed anyone else, but if i have they haven’t told me yet!
How can this be?
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Š from da Raggedy one
I just can’t imagine.
I hope it is a mistake or something.
*^_^
(=’:'=) meow hugs
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I havent actually been “dissed” but, I’m still new to blogging…
You’re seem to be such a caring, sweet person *sending hugs your way* 
Have a wonderful day! *toasting to mommaK witha mai-tai* may no one ever diss you again!! Or any other of you wonderful bloggers out there…NO DISSES!!! hehe
Now, I have to admit, when I log on and no one has commented on my latest post, I feel blah, but then I think, well, eventually someone will notice me LOL BTW Thanx MommaK for visiting me the other day when I was feeling down and thought that no one wanted to visit my blog
Yeah, I’ve been there sistah. I actually don’t comment as much as I used to on my favorite reads, out of a sheer lack of time, but I try to comment for every few times I read a site just so they know I’m still around! I don’t think of you as a disser at all though. And, how COULD someone diss you? You’re entirely too fabulous! (hug)
I’m not a disser. I’m a pretty consistent commenter. One thing I have to work on is replying to comments. What’s a girl to do?
I comment. I don’t like to be dissed. So my motto is … do unto other’s blogs as you would have done to your blog, too. Or something like that.
Sometimes life gets in the way, I think. I know it’s happened to me. So have I been a disser? If so, to anyone at all, I’m wicked sorry!!
It’s like diss and like that and like diss and uh, it’s like diss and like that and like diss and uh…
I don’t intentionally diss anyone. I’m sure I’ve been dissed, but I try not to care. I feel myself become a comment whore sometimes, and then I get over it. If people don’t comment, I think a) they didn’t have time to visit or b) my post didn’t inspire a comment in them. Oh well. Maybe next time.
I feel as though I may have dissed lately - but not on purpose, and I don’t think I’ve done it to you. If I have, I’m sorry. I’m just so busy and I feel horrible. Overwhelmed is an understatment.
What?Who dissed you? WHO? I will KILL them for you! Or at least give them very dirty looks. Heh.
Wait. It wasn’t ME, was it?
Yes, I have been dissed, and let me tell you something you already know: it hurts just as much online as it does in real life.
I hope that if I ever hurt anybody’s feelings they will tell me so I can apologize, and my apology will be absolutely sincere.
I am a person with strong and intense loyalties, and when someone hurts somebody I love (or even just ‘like’
I tend to blow up just a little bit, and when I come back down I sometimes realize that I was in the wrong, not the other person, and I hate that in myself but I still do it.
I hope that if I ever do it to any of you, you will tell me. Please.
MommaK, it wasn’t me, was it?
Yes, I guess I’ve been dissed. I haven’t been hurt by it. I can’t blame people because my blog sucks lately. It has helped me take stock. The problem is I can’t get my mojo back. I like your blog. I only read a few because I can’t keep up with hundreds like others can. After awhile I get a screen headache. I lurk a lot because with the volume of comments you receive there is usually not much left to say.
I’ve been dissed and I also know that I am guilty of not commenting on other blogs often enough. So often, I have to take time to think about what I’ve read in a post. But then I get busy and forget to go back and comment.
I am sorry someone hurt your feelings. I feel your pain.
Yeah, now I’m totally paranoid. What if it was me? And I’m reading all these other commenters who are friends and I’m like, What if it was ME they’re talking about too? What if I’m the Number One Disser!
I didn’t mean anything by it, I swear! I’ve just been really busy! Gah!
On the other hand, sometimes I feel dissed, too. Not by you though, MK.
I’m guilty of not leaving comments. However if I don’t have anything to add to the post then I feel like I’m just trying to get attention. Weird. I believe I have been dissed, but I don’t mind. I post photos and hope people simply enjoy looking at them and that in some small way it brightens their day. If they comment or not is their perogative.
cheers,
P.
I’ve been dissed a couple of times. Eh, no biggie. My ol’ Texan hide is pretty thick.
Oh… you were talking about ME, weren’t you…
Naaaaahhhh.
Oh may! It’s not me is it? I have been sooo bad! LAZY I guess-but I thought about u this weekend-cuz I was in Pacifica and HMB and san mateo-and I thought-it would be so cool if u still lived here- I would so look your butt up!! but I love your new home-so I’m glad you live there-I hope it’s not me- :shame: